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Benjamin, I think you should do you. If it’s important to you to use terms like “cisgender” for whatever reason then by all means do so. I do however completely reject the idea that it is incumbent upon me to use these terms as a sign of respect. I simply do not believe in the metaphysics of gender ideology and do absolutely believe that the whole idea has done incalculable harm to countless people, including those it purports to help. I would add the inane term “sex assigned at birth” to the list of obfuscating language that has steamrolled over common sense since 2020.

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I am still quite unconvinced that gender identity is a useful descriptive construct. Much less an essentialist concept. Sex and Gender are the same thing - we don’t need a word to describe “better than guessing” heuristic shortcuts about how men and women tend to socially act or present. We have the gender distressed and the gender accepting - they aren't actually different gender. Male and Female is all we need for policy and people’s feelings and presentations are their own business, not the state or policy other than they have the right to dress and feel as they please without being fired from jobs or kicked out of housing, etc. But the state doesn't need to validate introspective woo. Treat it like a religion with a beliefs/believers distinction.

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